No matter how hard you try, there`s some things in life that we as humans will just never be able to have any control over. Some things we won`t be able to change. That "thing" ranges from something very minuscule to something of super duper crazy knock your socks off right before you slip and step into a pile of fresh hot, maybe even discolored dependin` on the day, dog poop kind of importance. And the simple fact is. We can`t do shit about it. Just gotta take life as it comes and learn how to deal with it. And on the other hand, there are things that we can control/change that we completely just brush off because we focus/worry too much about the things we have no control over. And as human beings, honestly we have every right to do that. But what we also need to know is that these situations are the ones where we can come out with a lesson learned. Or time wasted. Depends on how you choose to handle it at the time. I mean, I know we all like to have that one person to talk to about things and go to for advice. But at the end of the day, that person`s advice isn`t goin` to play that much of a difference in your final decision. It`s completely up to you, and whether you want to admit it or not, you could care less about advice given or what someone has to say. I think we just pretend to so that we have an excuse to try and put the blame on someone else for something happens when it back fires in our face. The point of this is because I think people need to know that they need to make they`re own decisions. Don`t play along the line of lettin` someone else make a decision for you because it seems right at the moment and the stars are perfectly aligned with the moon on a clear starry night and you can connect the dots to form the shape of a head over heels megaman butterfly in love. Even if you think that lettin` it happen is makin` someone else happy. Fuck that. In the end the only person you should truly worry about makin` happy is this person right here *points fingers at myself*. Come on, do it. Say "I need to make him/her happy" while pointin` frantically at yourself to the point that you look like a loony. It`ll make you feel better, trust me. And where the beauty comes in with this is, IF the person that you are worried so much about pleasin` really accepts you for who you are then they shouldn`t need to try and mold you into somethin` else. And if they don`t. Then they needa kick rocks with a bare foot that just got done walkin` to pick Diddy up some cheese cake in a Making Da Band re-run. DEUCES!
